life is like that part-9

"The importance of friends is realized when u see a group of friends having fun and you think we used to be like them" this phase no matter how philosophical may sound but is so true. looking back i realize what a boring life i have right now. I was among those people who always used to have lots and lots of friends, the over enthusiastic, over crazy , over exciting person  who hated to be alone and now on a holiday i am sitting alone without even a single plan for the day. How much i miss you guys u have no idea. Its not like i am complaining, i know after certain age life gets on you. We all get busy with out life's and all the fun times becomes a memory .. a memory probably to tell our children or grandchildren... 

life is like that part-8

Life is a struggle ……..

• Struggle to get up every day.

• Struggle to survive each hour.

• Struggle to titillate your mind.

• Struggle to love and be loved.

• Struggle to die and reborn each day.

• Struggle to let go of the past and move forward.

• Struggle to be vivacious.

• Struggle to be dilettante.

• Struggle not to be monomaniac in life.

• Struggle to be what you aspire to be.

• Struggle to live your life on your terms.

• Struggle to evolve every day.

• Struggle to face the challenges of life with a smile.

• Struggle to find magical moments in monotonous life.

• Struggle to be content with your life.

• Struggle to be there for the people who love you.

• Struggle to get back what you left on your way.

life is like that -part 7

Is it normal to quit things and move on? Or should we stick to one thing only?

Passion is a very strong feeling about something, something even as small as coins or even as vast as music. But what happens when your passion keeps on changing? Does that mean that it was never your passion or does it implies that you are still to discover what your passion is? Or does it imply that you are a quitter??

There are those people who are extremely focused and concentrate on a single passion and on the other hand there are people who have that dilemma about what their actual passion is? They keep on shifting and keep on quitting is it all right to quit?

These are the people who fall into the category of “JACK OF ALL TRADES BUT MASTER OF NONE”. Passion, hobby or even time pass whatever we may call it, for them it will keep on changing like the seasons of the year……

Is it all right to know a little bit about everything or should we stick to one passion only? Or are we bounding our caliber by doing so?

Such a dilemma in my mind and so little answers …..What to do what not to do? Quitting or exploring new horizons whatever we may call it still sometimes it’s the best thing to do rather than been struck into something we are not passionate about …or even the thing in which we have lost interest…

Why should we be bound by only a single passion when there is so much to explore in the world…..

life is like that part -6

There are only three choices in our life’s we either live with regrets or without regrets or live wondering “what if”…..

‘What if’ only two words but which makes our imagination go wild or even haunt us for the rest of our lives.

What if I had done the right thing? Or what if I had studied more? What if I had not meet my bestiest best friends? Or what if I had been only five minutes late and have avoided that accident?

What happens then do our life becomes different from what it is now? Will we be in the same state of mind? Or would we have been happier or depressed?

A simple what if opens a whole lot of possibilities in front of our minds. The possibility of having a better life or even a worse one. It still intrigues me what if I had made my decisions a little different from what I had made.

Will I be happier if I had changed my course of action and done things differently or would I been in a worse place than where I am today? Or would I have been altogether a different person?

Are what if’s important or should some things be left to destiny?

It’s always said that “some things are meant to be”…….so should we leave our what if’s and be content with our life’s or should we always wonder what if and wonder whether the grass was greener on the other side?

life is like that part-5

Years old saying that “Love is blind” does it still hold or has it lost its meaning with the changing times?

Have we become too greedy to weight our feeling with materialistic things of the world? Does true love still exist in the world out there? Or has it also lost its significance just like everything else in this changing world?

So many questions so many ideologies but still the basics remains the same Love. Everyone say love is like music you have to feel it into your soul to get its essence. Similarly until and unless you have truly or deeply loved someone all the romantic novels and poems are just black words on paper, you can only feel it essence once love has stroked the chords of your heart.

But does true love exist in today’s world or it’s just that the idea of love exist without any heart or soul?

 Can we love someone truly without having to worry about all the other elements associated with it or we like all our counterparts have to go into pros and cons  before saying the ‘L’- word?

Sometimes infatuations or even obsession takes place of love. While one person may just be a good friend the other can clearly interpret the signals differently and what happens as a result of it is just a mess.

Love is when you simply cannot imagine your life without that person and no conditions applied.  The no condition applied is very important because most of the times we feel that we love a person because of some qualities or certain behavior but that’s not actually love it’s just pact between two persons and then what’s the proof that you won’t leave that person once you find someone who maybe fulfills more of your desires.

Love is when you have no clue about how you can spend the rest of your life if that person leaves you…

So yes love do exist all we have to do is keep an open heart and somewhere somehow someone will change the way we look at things and you will spend the rest of your life thinking what did I see in him to love him so much not realizing that he was the one who changed your outlook towards the world.....

life is like that part-4

What do you do when you don’t know what to do?

The simplest yet the most difficult question- do we just give up to the situation or fight against it. Even by giving up are we making the right decision or by settling for less we are actually compromising on our heart’s desire?

The difficulty here is that we will never know the consequences of our decisions until we finally made them. So are we willing to take that chance or are we not? That’s what the real question is. As it says one bird in hand is worth than two in bush.

So should we embrace the first chance that we get or should we let our dreams wander free in sky.

What if it is the bad choice to let our dreams fly? What if by missing the first opportunity we are actually sacrificing our future…

Is that really a heavy price to pay or are we willing to take the risk for a better life. For better or for worse I choose the particular road and I am the one responsible for my reactions- can this always justify what we do? Or should we be ruled by the society norms.

So many what if’s yet so little answers?  Why do we let the society govern us? Shouldn’t we be the decision makers of our future?

Our parents always tell us to follow our dreams but when it actually comes to make those critical choices or decisions in our life we feel the pressure and tension. Its not like they are forcing us to do something yet deep down our subconscious stops us from following what exactly we wanna do and tel the society norms and rules govern us.

The simplest example is of class 11^th when we first choose our streams for building our future the core foundation of our life ahead. Somehow there itself the pressure of society starts building on. No matter how much you think of psychology as a good subject or you think of studying political sciences yet as you are intelligent students you are supposed to go for sciences. Is that fair?

So what do you do when you actually don’t know what you want to do should you scum down to the outside pressure or should you explore deep down yourself to find what you are actually passionate about.

As Robert Frost says “two roads diverge in the wood and I took the one less travelled by and that has made the difference”

life is like that part-3

What do you do when its best to let go?

Let go may not just imply relationship but rather a whole bunch of stuff. One can always let go of their darkest fear, there old clothes (remember each and every clothe has a special memory attached with it, whether its of you first date, the dress you wore on day of getting an award or maybe when you were so happy) or even your feelings.

Feelings are the biggest problem of the all. How exactly to let go of feelings?

The way you felt about anyone can it change when the person is changing or will it remain the same. I really get confuse even while thinking about it so how can I even apply in my real life.

I may be eccentric, egoistic or even have a whole bunch of attitude but sometimes you need to acknowledge the fact that I am a person first of all. And when I feel some way about you I truly do. There’s no hiding from that fact. But what happens when this feeling becomes obsession?

What is the perfect time to let go of your feelings so as to start enjoying your life and stop obsession?

Is there actually any way to stop chasing what you don’t get and enjoy what you do have? There are plenty of opportunities that life gives us but somehow we are always so busy that we fail to notice these things.

Like if someone has said no in return for your proposal what do you do? You simply have some faith leave that person for good and move on. There are 7 billion people in the world surely one person will be there just for you. Rejections are not the end of the world rather the starting of a beautiful life. Sometimes all we have to do is just let go of your feelings in hope there is something or someone better out there waiting just for you.

There might be always the risk of leaving the comfort zone that you have shared with that person and going into alien territory. But how much scary it may sound but still its better to live on your own terms rather than with someone who does not acknowledge the fact that you have wasted all your precious time on them.

So let go of your feelings and venture out in the wild for there might be someone out there who will reciprocate exactly what you need.

After all in reality no one grows up everyone just learns how to behave in public so let the child in you have fun.