Thursday, 15 March 2012

life is like that part-3


What do you do when its best to let go?
Let go may not just imply relationship but rather a whole bunch of stuff. One can always let go of their darkest fear, there old clothes (remember each and every clothe has a special memory attached with it, whether its of you first date, the dress you wore on day of getting an award or maybe when you were so happy) or even your feelings.
Feelings are the biggest problem of the all. How exactly to let go of feelings?
The way you felt about anyone can it change when the person is changing or will it remain the same. I really get confuse even while thinking about it so how can I even apply in my real life.
I may be eccentric, egoistic or even have a whole bunch of attitude but sometimes you need to acknowledge the fact that I am a person first of all. And when I feel some way about you I truly do. There’s no hiding from that fact. But what happens when this feeling becomes obsession?
What is the perfect time to let go of your feelings so as to start enjoying your life and stop obsession?
Is there actually any way to stop chasing what you don’t get and enjoy what you do have? There are plenty of opportunities that life gives us but somehow we are always so busy that we fail to notice these things.
Like if someone has said no in return for your proposal what do you do? You simply have some faith leave that person for good and move on. There are 7 billion people in the world surely one person will be there just for you. Rejections are not the end of the world rather the starting of a beautiful life. Sometimes all we have to do is just let go of your feelings in hope there is something or someone better out there waiting just for you.
There might be always the risk of leaving the comfort zone that you have shared with that person and going into alien territory. But how much scary it may sound but still its better to live on your own terms rather than with someone who does not acknowledge the fact that you have wasted all your precious time on them.
So let go of your feelings and venture out in the wild for there might be someone out there who will reciprocate exactly what you need.
After all in reality no one grows up everyone just learns how to behave in public so let the child in you have fun. 

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