life is like that part-4

What do you do when you don’t know what to do?

The simplest yet the most difficult question- do we just give up to the situation or fight against it. Even by giving up are we making the right decision or by settling for less we are actually compromising on our heart’s desire?

The difficulty here is that we will never know the consequences of our decisions until we finally made them. So are we willing to take that chance or are we not? That’s what the real question is. As it says one bird in hand is worth than two in bush.

So should we embrace the first chance that we get or should we let our dreams wander free in sky.

What if it is the bad choice to let our dreams fly? What if by missing the first opportunity we are actually sacrificing our future…

Is that really a heavy price to pay or are we willing to take the risk for a better life. For better or for worse I choose the particular road and I am the one responsible for my reactions- can this always justify what we do? Or should we be ruled by the society norms.

So many what if’s yet so little answers?  Why do we let the society govern us? Shouldn’t we be the decision makers of our future?

Our parents always tell us to follow our dreams but when it actually comes to make those critical choices or decisions in our life we feel the pressure and tension. Its not like they are forcing us to do something yet deep down our subconscious stops us from following what exactly we wanna do and tel the society norms and rules govern us.

The simplest example is of class 11^th when we first choose our streams for building our future the core foundation of our life ahead. Somehow there itself the pressure of society starts building on. No matter how much you think of psychology as a good subject or you think of studying political sciences yet as you are intelligent students you are supposed to go for sciences. Is that fair?

So what do you do when you actually don’t know what you want to do should you scum down to the outside pressure or should you explore deep down yourself to find what you are actually passionate about.

As Robert Frost says “two roads diverge in the wood and I took the one less travelled by and that has made the difference”