life is like that...part-1

Whenever I get into an argument with my mom about what lies ahead in my life , I can clearly see the difference of opinion between us. Normally we both easily agree on stuff except when it comes to our ideologies. Two different set of ideologies from two separate generations. My mom who has ideologies from 1980 and I have 2012 ideologies, she specially find it amusing when I tell her about the fact that today its common for us to get bored from people . Its not like that we people don’t have emotions but its just that as we get everything so easily that why somehow we have forgotten the value of things. With both our parents working most of the times its very easy to get stuff out of them just by a little emotional blackmail and they too give up as a result of the guilt feeling of not spending as much time with us as their parents specially mothers who used to be housewife’s did . All this generation needs is just to be a little smart. Coming back to the relationships which we totally consider to be disposable, its actually true .How many people do you know around yourself who is at present or in past not in relationship? The answer is a no most probably. Because now a days relationship are very common, Maybe because of the fact of loneliness that you feel out of your life. And the best part is that your parents know about the fact that you are in relationship. Gone are the days when these things were a taboo in the family.

Earlier I felt that I was the only weirdo who got bored of people maybe because of the fact that being a single child I was so used to be alone, and could not tolerate other people peeking a lot in my life. I like people but its better when there is a distance in relationship.  Its just that I like people when they take interest in my life but excessive of interest in my life may be perceived as stalking, which is creepy. Coming back to the topic I too like many people of my generation get bored with people in my life. No matter how close a friend you might be but somehow down the line I need break. Its not that I don’t like you but its just most of the times excess of even a good thing might be harmful. All I ask here is that after some times when we know a person very well so as even to predict its behavior there is no fun left in the relationship. I know relationships are not only about fun but about a whole lot of emotional crap. But common its just too early for such things or maybe I am saying all this because I have not found the perfect person. The perfect person as so perceived by a lot of people who are in committed relationship is just a myth, common you are just saying that as you have found someone okay type whom you believe is great for you just because you are not willing to take the risk .

Anyways what all I might say in the end its just that I believe that sometimes a little break in the relationship are good. Take a break maybe it will increase your love or maybe you will find someone better…lol